Giftedness doesn't end when adulthood hits. How do we prepare gifted teens and tweens for the unique challenges they'll face as they move toward independence? Read the tips, tricks, and strategies used by our GHF Bloggers to strengthen gifted teens and tweens, giving them the boost they need to take adulthood head on.
7 Tips for Parenting Tweens and Teens ~ Eclectic Homeschool (Amy B.)
Parenting teens and tweens is not for the feint of heart. Parenting in general is not easy, but the tween and teen years can be particularly challenging. I’m new to parenting teens and I’m attempting to figure it out as we go. My older kids are currently aged 12 and 14 and they are teaching me much about this stage of development. Here are a few lessons I’ve heard along the way.
Coming of Age ~Gifted Homeschooling (Amy Harrington)
In western culture children are granted full rights and responsibilities at the legal age of adulthood. Until 18 most children are dependent beings who are under the control of the adults around them both at home, in school and elsewhere. In an unschooling home these notions of attaining freedom based on age maturation are obsolete. Children of all ages are completely free in an unschooling lifestyle and their ability to self-govern is supported and nurtured. Teens and tweens who embrace their freedom and their authentic personalities should have less issues than their mainstream counterparts. Teenage rebellion and peer pressure are nonexistent as our entire lifestyle rebels against societal norms.
Keepin' It Real as a 2e Parent ~ Laughing at Chaos (Jen Merrill)
I'm going to share a little secret with you. Please don't spread this around, it'll totes ruin my rep:
OH MY GOD I HAVE NO FREAKING IDEA WHAT I AM DOING.
Preparing for College; Preparing for Crazy ~ Gluten-Free Mum (Kathleen Humble)But I did learn something from this crazy week. I learned that I and my family are really good at rolling with those punches. There might be a manic moment when I channel Jack Nicholson's mirror-smashing laugh in Batman. But after the hilarity, there's usually the realisation that confronting unusual and obscure (even unthinkable) conundrums is something that I've become very good at doing.
Odds of this happening are one in five thousand? I'll raise you a one in ten thousand! And, being me, there's also a little Han Solo voice in the back of my brain yelling out, 'Never tell me the odds!'
One thing I have learned? Preparing and dealing with the unexpected is pretty similar, whether we're talking medical-crazy, or education-crazy.
Preparing for Their Future: The Importance of Learning to Navigate Ambiguity ~ Teach Your Own (Lori Dunlap)
Decades ago, the ambiguity we were navigating was the lack of information – if it wasn’t available at the library, we just didn’t have access. Today, navigating ambiguity means wading through an excess of information, much of which is irrelevant, inaccurate, biased, or contradictory. We were trying to find any lighthouse in the fog; they are trying to figure out which light is actually the lighthouse.
Show And Tell: Preparing Gifted Teens and Tweens for the Future ~ Atlas Educational (Lisa Epler Swaboda)
There are a million articles out there touting the importance of education. They begin at birth with readying your life by preparing for a stress-free environment, go on to advise you in ways of finding the best preschools, and recommend the best ways to prepare for college applications all aimed at securing the best jobs for your child.
Slow down, people.
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