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Gifted individuals encounter bullying across the lifespan--in classrooms and board rooms. Their sensitivities and overexcitabilities can make them especially vulnerable. In this hop our bloggers present a variety of perspectives on this important--albeit neglected--topic.
Book Excerpt: "Gifted, Bullied, Resilient" ~ RedWhiteandGrew (Pamela Price)
They tell you that a lot. They also change the reasons why they do not like you.
Sometimes they say you talk too much.
Sometimes they say you think you are smarter than they are.
Other times they say that you dress funny or your hair is too curly and weird.
Occasionally, they decide that they do they like you. For a few days you enjoy the feeling of acceptance. Yet, it still feels awkward."
Bully Prevention at Home ~ My Little Poppies (Caitlin Curley)
Is it possible to work on bully prevention at home? Here are some tips and resources to use at home to boost kindness and stop aggression.
Bullying in Childhood Helps You Handle Bullying in Adulthood? ~ Eclectic Homeschooling (Amy Bowen)
Getting a group of kids together who share nothing in common other than age creates a pecking order. Day in and day out these kids are together. If you are a child that is too tall, too short, too fat, too skinny, too loud, too quiet, too smart, too different, you are a target for bullying in a typical school environment.
The Culture of Bullying ~ Gifted Unschooling (Amy Harrington)
Mainstream culture fosters bullying in the home, school and work place. It is considered a normal and acceptable part of life. A rite of passage, of sorts. Most children and adults accept control and abuse of power as something that strengthens character. What a low view of humanity to think we all need to be abused verbally, physically and/or psychologically in order to develop self-worth.
My Bully, Myself ~ Laughing at Chaos (Jen Merrill)
So maybe I escaped bullying from others growing up, but I sure as hell didn't escape it entirely.
Review! Gifted, Bullied, Resilient: A Brief Guide for Smart Families by Pamela Price ~ Homeschooling Hatters (Care Martin)
I've made no secret of the fact that Mad Natter and I both have been targeted by bullies at various points. I've been uncomfortable, trying to find some way to cope with what I experienced, and how to help Mad Natter with whatever comes his way. There hasn't really been a resource for that - until now.
A Review of Gifted, Bullied, Resilient by Pamela Price ~ Bob Yamtich
Her empathic firmness is both protective and uplifting.
Undesirable #1: Bullying ~ Madeline's Musings (Madeline Goodwin)
By permitting bullying at any age, level, or grouping within society, we are taking a step back in our development, not forward. [...] Instead of picking on those who think outside the box, let us appreciate their contributions. Rather than glorifying exclusive group identities let's recognize every individual's value to society. We must all support each other.
As an African proverb says: "If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together."
What Does Bullying Mean and How Does it Impact Gifted Children? ~ Raising Lifelong Learners (Colleen Kessler)
What's the difference between being mean and bullying? Does it matter? Gifted children are a vulnerable population -- they're sensitive and different, and so they're often easy targets. Recognize the signs of bullying, and know how to help your kiddo.
Why We Need to Listen to Children's Perceptions of Bullying ~ Houseful of Chaos (Christy Knockleby)
As an extremely thoughtful, sensitive child recent bullying raised questions for one of my sons about what his place in the world was, how to balance his desire not to see others in pain with his need to protect himself, and whether to trust his own interpretation of events or not. It really would have been easier if he could just see the other child as a jerk, but that wasn't in the cards for him.
Workplace Bullying and the Gifted Adult ~ Crushing Tall Poppies (Celi Trepanier)
But bullying doesn’t end in the schoolyard or once our gifted kids grow up. Workplace bullying is an adult version of schoolyard bullying and the victims are nearly always a highly-capable, exceptional worker who discovers that his hard work and exceptional skills may have unknowingly threatened a co-worker and many times, the victim’s boss.
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Past Blog Hops
- The Scoop on Gifted, Homeschooling, and Education: Our Book Reviews
- Gifted People and Rabbit Holes
- Parenting and Teaching a Gifted Toddler
- Discipline and Your Gifted Child
- Why Is High-Achieving Synonymous with Being Gifted?
- The Invisible Gifted Child: Mislabeled, Misdiagnosed, Unidentified and Misunderstood
- Uniquely Gifted:The Different Areas of Giftedness
- Happiest Homeschooling Moments: Personal Stories, Inspiration and Tips
- Gifted Children: Transitioning Between Public School and Homeschool
- Gifted and Twice-Exceptional: Revisiting 2E Issues
- When Did You First Realize Your Child Was Gifted/2E/Different?
- The Difficulties of Being Gifted
- Your Gifted Child: The Light at the End of the Tunnel
- When Homeschooling Your Gifted Child Becomes a Drag: My Best Tips
- Navigating Family Life When Gifted Traits Collide
- Gifted Children and The Role of Mentors
- Gifted Children: Academic and Career Planning Beyond K-12
- Gifted Children: The Importance of Finding Intellectual Peers and Community
- Choosing Extracurricular Activities for Gifted Children with Overexcitabilities in Mind
- Preparing for Their Future: Parenting Gifted Teens and Tweens
- Gifted 2E Kids: What Makes Them Twice-Exceptional
- Recognizing Giftedness in Our Children and Ourselves
- Loving the Unexpected Gifts of Giftedness
- Educating Gifted Children: The Many Ways We Approach Their Learning
- The Highs and Lows of Gifted Parenting
- Discovering the Depth and Breadth of Giftedness
- Parenting Gifted/2E Kids on a Shoestring
- Bullying Across the Gifted/2e Lifespan
- Perfectionism and Other Gifted/2E Quirks
- Gifted at Different Ages & Stages
- A Day in the Life of a Gifted Homeschooler
- How Do You Say “Gifted”?
- Gifted in Reel Life
- End of Year Blogger Wrap Up!
- The Most Popular Posts on Giftedness in 2014
- Parenting OEs, 2Es and Everything in Between
- Finding Your Community
- Gifted Grown Ups
- Gifted Parenting
- Special Tips, Toys, Tricks, & Tools for Parenting & Educating Gifted/2E
- Promoting Health and Wellness in the Gifted/2E Child
- Homeschooling & Parenting Gifted/2E Kids into the Teens (and Beyond)
- Staying Motivated throughout the Homeschool Year
- Surviving & Thriving at the Holidays with a Gifted/2E Kid
- Homeschooling a Gifted 2e Kid
- Sleep and Other Forms of Parental Self-Care
- Homeschooling: Where and How to Begin
- Homeschooling with/without a Partner
- Stealth Schooling